Iftar Etiquette: Do’s, Don’ts & The Art of Breaking the Fast with Grace
Ramadan is not only a month of fasting and reflection, it is also a month of love, generosity, and warm invitations. Attending Iftar gatherings during Ramadan is a beautiful way to connect with family, friends, and neighbors. However, attending with good etiquette is just as important as being present.
BY JANA ZAHDEH, FOUNDER OF SCHOOL OF ETIQUETTE
Sending and Responding to Invitations
Timing is key. Invitations should ideally be sent 3–5 days in advance. Equally important is the response: when you receive an invitation, reply within 24 hours to confirm whether you will attend. This simple act shows respect for the host and allows them to plan accordingly.
Arriving on Time
Punctuality is essential during Ramadan. It is best to arrive 10–15 minutes before Iftar. Arriving after Iftar is considered impolite, as it may delay the host and other guests from breaking their fast. Being on time shows consideration and appreciation for everyone involved.
Bringing Thoughtful Gifts
Bringing a small gift is a thoughtful gesture that reflects the spirit of Ramadan. Popular choices include a box of chocolates, dates, or traditional Arabic sweets.
If you are visiting someone’s home for the first time, a decorative gift for the house — such as an item in silver, gold, or crystal — is appropriate. If unsure of the home’s décor theme, crystal or glass is a safe, elegant choice that complements any setting.
Knowing When to Leave
Understanding the appropriate duration of your visit is another key aspect of etiquette. Staying around one hour to one and a half hours is generally ideal, as many hosts have multiple gatherings during the month. If you notice that your host appears tired or needs to conclude the event, it is polite to thank them and excuse yourself gracefully.
For official invitations, there is often a designated timeframe for attendance. Respecting this schedule demonstrates professionalism and courtesy.
The Essence of Ramadan Etiquette
Good etiquette during Ramadan is not just about attending invitations; it is about showing respect, gratitude, and consideration for others. Small gestures — like responding promptly, arriving on time, bringing a thoughtful gift, and leaving at the right moment — turn a simple gathering into a meaningful and memorable experience.
By following these principles, one can honor the spirit of Ramadan while maintaining elegance, grace, and thoughtful presence at every Iftar invitation.
